(Refuse To Be Controlled By Your Emotions, Desires Or Impulses)
Rhapsody of Realities TeeVo
Sunday, May 3rd, 2026
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome DSc DSc DD
TO THE BIBLE
2 Peter 1:6 KJV
“And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness.”
LET’S TALK
In our previous study, we learned about adding knowledge to our faith—becoming informed, enlightened, and effective in all we do. But knowledge alone isn’t enough; it must be balanced with something very vital—temperance! Think about a race. Every athlete trains their body to obey strict discipline. They practice restraint in diet, sleep, and lifestyle because they have a goal in mind—to win the prize. It’s the same with your spiritual journey. If you must win in life, you’ve got to learn to control yourself!
Temperance means self-control—the ability to hold yourself in and not be ruled by your emotions, desires, or impulses. It’s learning to master you. Proverbs 25:28 (NIV) says, “Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control.” In ancient times, a city without walls was open to attack; anyone could invade. That’s what happens when someone lacks self-control—anger, lust, laziness, or bad habits can easily take over.
A person who lacks self-control is like a city without walls—open to attack and easily defeated (Proverbs 25:28). In ancient times, city walls symbolized strength, safety, and discipline. Without them, anyone could walk in and take over. That’s how it is when someone doesn’t rule their spirit. They have no boundaries, no discipline, and no defense against temptation or error.
You’ve got to have principles in your life. You’ve got to have self-control! Some people boast about their temper or their sharp tongue. They say, “If I talk to you, you’ll hate yourself!” and they’re even proud of it. But your mouth wasn’t given to you for tearing others down. God gave you your words to build your life, your future, and the lives of others. Use your tongue to bless, to edify, and to speak success and victory. That’s what self-control looks like—directing your words, emotions, and actions by the wisdom of the Spirit.
When you master yourself, you become a vessel fit for the Master’s use. You become fruitful and productive in every good work because you’re consistent, disciplined, and guided by the Word. A life of self-control is a life that produces lasting results—a life that glorifies God and advances His Kingdom. Hallelujah!
GO DEEPER
Proverbs 16:32 NIV Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city.
Proverbs 25:28
He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.
SPEAK
I’m a master of my thoughts, emotions, and actions! I refuse to be ruled by anger, laziness, or distractions. I have self-control and discipline through the Spirit of God. I’m focused, balanced, and strong in character. I respond with wisdom in every situation, and I always act according to the Word. I’m in charge, making steady progress every day. Hallelujah!
DAILY BIBLE READING
ONE YEAR
Luke 24:36-53, 2 Samuel 12-14
TWO YEAR
Mark 7:1-13, Numbers 5
ACT
Be deliberate about self-control today. When you feel pressured to react in anger, speak calmly instead. When distractions come, stay focused on what truly matters.
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